10 politically incorrect truths about human nature, it deserves to be read, if not worshiped. Of course I already believe most of the facts that the article claimed (other than #6), but I think it might come as a revelation to some people, and they should enlighten themselves. And from the article I really like this quote: Women often say no to men. Men have had to conquer foreign lands, win battles and wars, compose symphonies, author books, write sonnets, paint cathedral ceilings, make scientific discoveries, play in rock bands, and write new computer software in order to impress women so that they will agree to have sex with them. Men have built (and destroyed) civilization in order to impress women, so that they might say yes.

Women saying no to men is the sole driving force of civilization, believe it or not, women rejecting men is what makes men become better men. And really, it isn’t because men are smarter than women, but there are more important and influential men in the history of mankind, just because men needed to be powerful so they could get laid. Neil Strauss, who wrote the Game (which I recommeded before), learned that after infiltrating the pick-up artists society, that he learned to become a better man by learning to pick up women. Freaknomics had a discussion on the Science of Insulting women (the comments are interesting), a technique called “Negging”, which is invented by Mystery, a real-life character from the Game, who now hosts his own TV show on VH1 (think of it as the Apprentice with Mystery instead of Trump). I don’t really think of Negging as insulting women and lowering her self esteem, but to convey non-interest (so they don’t have to say no to you, reacting to their genetic desposition), and to boost self-confidence (which is very important). Making slightly negative comments just means you are not nervous, and stops you from gawking at them.

Which reminds me of the movie Superbad, which I saw this past weekend, and like Donald said, Superbad IS super good, for numerous reasons. Yes it reminded me of high school life, which was total torture, I am not sure if I belonged to either the jocks or the nerds crowd, well I just came from overseas so I was one of the FOBs, which I didn’t even remember if that was even a lower social standing than nerds. To me, then, American Society was a strange place, which I didn’t quite get at that time. In Asia, being the top of your class gets you chicks, everyone knew that. One can study their way into being popular. In US, its the opposite of that, pretty much, you are stuck being where you are and can only hope that this phase of your life passes (maybe past torture propels you to future success). Maybe thats why Asian kids are on a whole better academically, not because our parents force us to, its because, what sex drives us, which also explains what I wrote before, how Chinese societies killed creativity. If women only chose the doctors and lawyers, who would draw comics, design video games, and write a book? Not to say being a writer is aphrodisiac to women in America, its about gaining respect, which the kids in Superbad tried very hard, to earn respect, to get laid, and found that at the end being themselves as more important, and I agreed, overall a pretty good message behind the laughter, and I whole-heartedly recommend the movie, and one you should watch with the guys (though I saw it with a girl).